This is really not to judge anyone. but seriously, why do some people tend to like BDSM? I meant, the pain will never equate to pleasure for me and it is really degrading. I do not want to judge but I want to understand. PLease do not tell me I did not try, I did believe me. It was all pain for me. ended up not being able to feel the dick inside my pussy because the whip in my ass is burning me