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    I'm 23 and still single. I just wanted to ask people at their 20s here, why is it so hard to find a date in your 20s? It is given that men are still immature in their 20s, but what are the other things that make it so hard for us to find a potential date or partner?

  • #2
    I'm only 21 and yes, but I don't think it's hard to find someone to date. I mean there are guys out there who aren't our type, so we should just keep looking for someone we can be compatible with.

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    • AliveLivery
      AliveLivery commented
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      Same, I am only 21 and I think dates just comes to me the least I expect. I keep myself busy then one day someone decides to hit me up and wants to get to know me. Well then, sure, I'm interested!

    • longneck
      longneck commented
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      Yes, if we do not like the men because they are not our type then we could say to them that they are not the ones whom we are looking for. Let us not provide false hopes to those men as it would also be painful to them to wait and then be rejected afterwards.

    • holleroutyo
      holleroutyo commented
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      There are so many guys out there. I do not think that it is hard to find them around.

  • #3
    Originally posted by Annalyn View Post
    I'm 23 and still single. I just wanted to ask people at their 20s here, why is it so hard to find a date in your 20s? It is given that men are still immature in their 20s, but what are the other things that make it so hard for us to find a potential date or partner?
    You know what? It's not that hard to find someone to date with. Maybe you've been rejecting those guys who ask you out and you don't give them a chance because you think that they're way too out of your league.

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    • LoveShove
      LoveShove commented
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      Yes. That could be the reason. Men exist, and they all around, but when your standards are too high then most men would not pass anymore. Try to lower the qualifications and surely those men would be come around.

    • AudreyA
      AudreyA commented
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      Yeah, it is not hard at all. Download some dating apps and sign up from there. Look for people near your location and contact them. Voila. Hookups are already on your hand.

    • J3nnyTalia
      J3nnyTalia commented
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      Reject that easily and that quickly? That is a bad move if she has been doing that style.

  • #4
    I don't think it's hard to find serious relationships if you look hard enough. Maybe you can find it the least you were expecting it. Avoid dating apps for people there only look for hookups and nothing serious at all, believe me, I've been there!

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    • HoneySpyder
      HoneySpyder commented
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      Sometimes people in dating apps are actually looking for serious relationships. Can't you even read their bio description/s?

    • LovelyAlive
      LovelyAlive commented
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      While most people are present there just for hookups, I guess there are some people who are looking for some serious relationships, too. You would just need to look for those kinds of people.

    • XperiencedVirgin
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      Not all people using the dating apps are for looking for hookups as some are seriously looking for the right person.

  • #5
    It's hard to find people to date these days and age has nothing to do with that. It's the people that we should be dealing with, right?

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    • Amazeac
      Amazeac commented
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      Yes, people. And as much as possible, we should have good people to date. Okay, not just good people, but they should be handsome and have big dicks, too.

    • TeaHoney
      TeaHoney commented
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      If you have high standards, then you would have hard times looking for dates. I suggest that you lower them and men would come their ways.

    • Marphy
      Marphy commented
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      Why is it hard for you to find people? There are so many people around.

  • #6
    Hard? But I do not find it to be hard at all. Are you looking at the right place?

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    • 1xz9
      1xz9 commented
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      She could use some dating sites and dating apps to look for potential men to date. With this age and time, having dates are easier now.

    • Lilliah
      Lilliah commented
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      There are many people at the bars and clubs. Those are the places where I usually look for some men. Lol.

    • MasQue
      MasQue commented
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      Oh, so where are the right places to look for those men? Could we go to the church and find some good me over there?

  • #7
    Originally posted by Annalyn View Post
    I'm 23 and still single. I just wanted to ask people at their 20s here, why is it so hard to find a date in your 20s? It is given that men are still immature in their 20s, but what are the other things that make it so hard for us to find a potential date or partner?
    You're only 23 and I'm 25, so what if we both cannot find suitable dates? We're young and we should go out and mingle more. Compared to older people, they're struggling to find a suitable date for their age.

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    • Janbaby
      Janbaby commented
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      Those old people can offer cash for their young dates in exchange for services. How about young people? They cannot offer much money for their dates in exchange for pleasure.

  • #8
    Well, it is true that men would take longer to become mature. That is already scientifically proven. But that does not mean that they are hard to come by. There are men everywhere. It is just for us to catch them around.

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    • Carlosa34
      Carlosa34 commented
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      Right. Men are everywhere. We can see them all over the place. Anyway, even if they are around, not all men would be available for us to take.

    • BuiltToLast
      BuiltToLast commented
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      Women are hard to please and they would only want material possession for those men. Some of us are matured already so don't go saying that it takes long for us to think right like you.

  • #9
    It is hard when we want too many things. Most men could not have it all. Some have it all but what is the chance that you could meet them? And if ever you meet them, then what is the chance those men would like you back?

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    • virgingirl
      virgingirl commented
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      To get a man to like you back is to know what their interests are. What you two have in common and for sure you two will start having dates and things will go well for both of you.

  • #10
    It wouldn't be so hard if you'd just go out there and mingle a little more. What do you think? I think your age does not correlate with how hard it is to find a potential date. Note that you're too young and you need to learn more about dating and you'll get used to the things that you've done from your past dates.

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    • VanVan01
      VanVan01 commented
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      You've nailed it! Yes, she's too young and she has more to experience. Why there a need to rush things? A perfect date will come to you if you do not rush things.

  • #11
    I think that's because people in the 20s are busy building up their career and clearly do not have the time for dating. Also, maybe their career is their number one priority as of the moment.

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    • CuddlyPac
      CuddlyPac commented
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      Well, for some people, this is actually the case. On our 20s, this is really the time to catch up with our work. But then, this is the prime time to have dates as there are so many people around like in the bars and clubs.

  • #12
    I think people in 20s are not yet looking for someone to seriously date. They just want to enjoy their youth first that's why you are having a hard time finding someone your age. I suggest that you should just enjoy your unproblematic life for now and mingle with people as much as you can.

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    • #13
      Why are you in a hurry? The right person will come to you at the right time. But for now, people in the 20s are having fun with their own lives and flirting as much as they can. That's what you should do as well. Flirt for now then the dating will come in the right time for you.

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