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    Is it okay to stay friends after breaking up?

  • #2
    Of course not, after all, he has done to me. I won't let him be my friend.


    • Annalyn
      Annalyn commented
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      Has all your previous relationships ended on a bad note?

    • ablasta
      ablasta commented
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      Yep, all of them are a bunch of losers because of there a lot of flirt bitch around the world.

  • #3
    Who gave you that idea? I don't think that is possible.


    • KellyEM
      KellyEM commented
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      There are instances that they can still be friends if they mutually agreed that it's better for the two of you to be friends rather than be a couple

    • merrygoround
      merrygoround commented
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      But I think that is not possible because you will only think "only if" statements if you are friends with him.

  • #4
    It all depends on how you guys have broken up. For me, the most that I can give him is to be civil with him if we ever cross paths


    • CuddlyPac
      CuddlyPac commented
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      If he cheated on you, I'm guessing that you don't have plans of being civil towards him?

    • smartass
      smartass commented
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      CuddlyPac Actually, you can be still civil to an ex who cheated on you if there's no bitterness in your heart.

    • Mor2thisIknoe
      Mor2thisIknoe commented
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      CuddlyPac you can just ignore him completely if that's the reason for the break up

  • #5
    Maybe let it pass a couple of months or years before I can say that we can be friends


    • honesty101
      honesty101 commented
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      Even if the reason why you've broke up with the person is because of cheating?

    • XperiencedVirgin
      XperiencedVirgin commented
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      honesty101 Yes, because I know how to forgive people.

  • #6
    I consider some of them as friends, but not sure if they feel the same towards me


    • 1xz9
      1xz9 commented
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      It thinks you are the one who broke up that's why. lol

    • TeaBroadway
      TeaBroadway commented
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      I feel that there might be a few of them who would see you as a friend

  • #7
    Originally posted by fistingfatties View Post
    the most that I can give him is to be civil with him if we ever cross paths
    But if he cheated on me, then there is no chance in hell that I would be friends or even be civil towards him


    • Live2Hunt
      Live2Hunt commented
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      I guess you are one of those who can't forget and forgive.

  • #8
    Nope, being friends means you forgive him and I don't think that is possible.


    • uninvoked
      uninvoked commented
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      You don't have to forgive him, being friends also means being in good terms with each other.

    • imhornyimhorny
      imhornyimhorny commented
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      How can you be in good terms with him if you did not forgive him?

  • #9
    Yes, it could be possible if the relationship ended in a good way.


    • Informerem
      Informerem commented
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      Correct, and of course you have to be in good terms with each other.

  • #10
    Of course, that is possible to others, but not all.


    • Carlosa34
      Carlosa34 commented
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      Well, you are right about that since some doesn't deserve to be part of your life anymore.

    • morelove
      morelove commented
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      a couple of them, and I let only 3 of them to still be my friend. Lingtote
      Last edited by morelove; 05-10-2019, 09:16 AM.

    • morelove
      morelove commented
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      Yes, you are right especially to those who are born a cheater. Carlosa34

  • #11
    I always made sure to stay away from any of them. Don't want to have awkward encounters with them


    • TroveLove
      TroveLove commented
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      I'm guessing that you don't want to be friends with them?

  • #12
    Why not? If you both ended it all, then there is no reason for you both not to be friends.


    • TastyLove
      TastyLove commented
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      Unless there is still a hidden grudge between them.

  • #13
    No, I don't think it is advisable to stay friends after a break-up.


    • Kinkytime
      Kinkytime commented
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      I agree, especially when having a new relationship. That will be an issue for sure.

  • #14
    As a personal rule, I try and avoid them but would try to be civil in case our paths would cross


    • Vichie
      Vichie commented
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      I agree, that is the best option to do.

    • StrongAsZeus
      StrongAsZeus commented
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      That's how it should be. Crazy ex's— take note. lol

  • #15
    I see nothing wrong about that as long as you two are not angry with each other.


    • BugAlive
      BugAlive commented
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      So have you crossed paths with an ex ever since the two of you broke up?