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  • Bad Dates In A Row

    How many bad dates does it take before you tell the person that it wasn't working between the two of you

  • #2
    If by the third date there is still no connection between the two of us, then I would tell him that it would be better if we see different people already

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    • 1xz9
      1xz9 commented
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      It may seem harsh but I guess that is the best thing to do.

    • MasQue
      MasQue commented
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      1xz9 Yeah, than to force something when you know it's not gonna work.

  • #3
    For me, it would only take two bad consecutive dates. If the second one was a good one for me, I would give him two more dates

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    • Vichie
      Vichie commented
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      What if the dates alternate between a good and bad one?

  • #4
    Around 3-5 dates in order to get to know the person well and find out the reason why the previous dates were bad ones

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    • AnnieP
      AnnieP commented
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      What are you going to do if the girl thinks that things are getting serious between the two of you during those dates?

  • #5
    I think twice is enough to know if it won't work or the other way around.

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    • HoneyConey
      HoneyConey commented
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      I think you need to give him one more chance.

  • #6
    Two dates would be the max, but I will go out with him for a third date and tell him that it won't work for us

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    • Amazeac
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      smartass why not just tell him right after the second one? That's a bit like overstaying your welcome already

    • smartass
      smartass commented
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      hitthesack Yes, that if the first and second date did not work out.

    • smartass
      smartass commented
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      Amazeac Well, that has nothing to do with you.

  • #7
    Never encounter a bad date before and they are all given a second chance only.

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    • SmileDemiSmile
      SmileDemiSmile commented
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      I'm guessing that you never had a bad first date that's why you've given them a second date with you?

    • TastyLove
      TastyLove commented
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      SmileDemiSmile She just said that she never encountered a bad date before.

    • Yummykorn
      Yummykorn commented
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      Or you just put the bar too low that's why you haven't encountered any bad date yet?

  • #8
    I would go and have a second date with him. And if in the middle of the second date, I feel that it's still a bad one, I would tell him that it won't work for the both of us at the end of the date

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    • XtineA
      XtineA commented
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      How many times did that happened already?

  • #9
    It would be two for me cause I can still tolerate the first one.

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    • honesty101
      honesty101 commented
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      So when was the last time you've been in a date?

    • yumyum
      yumyum commented
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      honesty101 To answer your question, that would be last month.

  • #10
    What I'm after is consistency so it would be four or five dates. If we had a three good dates by the fourth date, then I would like to take things to the next level

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    • newromance
      newromance commented
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      I'm guessing why you mentioned a fifth date is when the good and bad dates are two apiece?

    • KellyEM
      KellyEM commented
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      So it's a race to three then? The first one that reaches three would be your decision
      Last edited by KellyEM; 05-28-2019, 09:51 AM.

  • #11
    If the second date turns to be bad, I think that is enough to call it quits.

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    • Annalyn
      Annalyn commented
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      And what if it was a good one? Are you going to give him another chance?

    • Live2Hunt
      Live2Hunt commented
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      Annalyn is right. It's tied up at 1-1. Will it really be conclusive?

  • #12
    Three dates and he needs to make sure that at least two of them are good ones for me

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    • holleroutyo
      holleroutyo commented
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      So the second and third one should be good ones in order for things hit the next level

  • #13
    The first impression is important to me so it will only take one date to know if it was a bad date or not.

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    • Yummykorn
      Yummykorn commented
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      So you would ghost him immediately if it was a bad date?

    • Live2Hunt
      Live2Hunt commented
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      Maybe you're that good, huh?

  • #14
    If it's still a bad one by the second date, I would say to him that this will not work

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    • BabeLady
      BabeLady commented
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      And what would happen if the second was way better that you expected it to be?

    • Informerem
      Informerem commented
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      What if the guy is just a slow starter?

    • HoneyConey
      HoneyConey commented
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      Yeah. Second chances are supposed to be for redemption

  • #15
    Having a 3rd date is the safest way to find out. Note: only tolerate if you really like something about him/her.

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    • PussySlay
      PussySlay commented
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      Correct, give the person a chance before giving your decision.
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