What Would You Do?

[Husbandisacuck]

Let's say that you've been in a relationship for an extended period of time. You and your partner have had a great, satisfying relationship from the beginning. Then your partner loses interest in sex. There is no reason to believe they are having any type of affair. And the loss of interest may have happened over a long period of time. What would you do?

[CupcakeTea]

I would try and ask him why he suddenly lost interest in having sex with me. In case he gives a list of things that he wants to try then, I would be willing to try most of them in order to keep the relationship

[merrygoround]

If that's the case I think this is a personal issue he needs to face or it might just be a cycle. He might also be busy.

[Husbandisacuck]

The question is to be answered as if it were in your relationship and your partner had lost interest in sex, or lost interest in sex with you.

[merrygoround]

Well, put some spice onto the relationship, like wearing panties only at home or sucking his dick in the kitchen. Or maybe get into a threesome.

[ablasta]

Busyness is the usual reason for this.

[Cupcakeri]

I will try and find out the reason why he lost interest with having sex with me. If I'm still at the stage where I'm craving for sex, then I might suggest to be in an open marriage so that I can still have some fun

[HoneyConey]

If the love for each other still exists, then it might be the time to try doing what Cupcakeri has mentioned. Find each other new sexual partners

[Pizzaman17]

Mmmmmm this situation sounds familiar

[Informerem]

Maybe she would be fine with it if you're able to explain it to her properly

[PussySlay]

I think because you can relate to this.

[yumyum]

You should also try to go out and have a second honeymoon. Travel. both of you and see if it will still work

[Pizzaman17]

I’m thinking in today’s world this type of open relationship might work. Problem is we are both 46 and she’s a bit old fashioned. As far as me asking and explaining to her........believe me I’d love to but I have A feeling the question would be an open door to disaster.

Right now im floating around from site to site looking for sexting type hookups. I think I’m addicted. Seems pretty easy and it’s exciting but obviously not the real thing.........but better then nothing lol

[Pizzaman17]

PussySlay well thank you miss. That’s very nice of you

[PussySlay]

No need to mention it. I already know that I'm a nice person. lmao

[Pizzaman17]

PussySlay noted

[holleroutyo]

Maybe rekindle the spark and try to do the things you do to each other. Or maybe spice it up a little bit.

[Pizzaman17]

I dont Really find her attractive anymore. Just friends basically

[holleroutyo]

that's kinda sad

[Janbaby]

If the man can't pinpoint the problem, I'll seek for medical help.

[morelove]

Maybe you just need some molly in order to spice things up again

[Janbaby]

you know your relationship is in shambles if you think

[yumyum]

Probe around, if not then two can play at this game

[Tastyblic]

What kind of game? and what will happen to the loser?

[yumyum]

The game of losing interest. The loser will be the one who will file a divorce. LOL

[PussySlay]

I will probably buy tons of sex toys and download porn videos.

[fistingfatties]

Lol if this doesn't work, he is probably insane.

[Kinkytime]

I'll make my move to spice things up. Maybe do a romantic dinner for him and do stuff for him like take him shopping or giving him a massage. It's actually nice to do those things for a man you really love but if it doesn't work, it's okay, as long as I did my part of being in a relationship.

[LoveShove]

I guess you should think of adding some variety in bed. Add some toys if you're in to that, some butt play wouldn't hurt. Communication and having to compromise is the key. Good luck to you.

[Pizzaman17]

I’d rather live obviously but yes this kind of satisfies teporarily. Just met a girl wo likes to be degraded. All new to me. Very interesting

[Pizzaman17]

hardandrough correctamundo 😊. Thx for understanding 🌹

[LoveShove]

Pizzaman17 degraded in what way exactly? Is it humiliation or something different?

[yumyum]

Spice up your relationship. Let him feel excited whenever there's a thought that you are going to each other. Make it bolder.

[ManlyBeardMan]

I like how you think. Maybe we could do something similar?

[imhornyimhorny]

Maybe add some spice, try new styles, use things that can be use during sex, explore.