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  • Fear to love.

    I have been in many failed relationships before. Most of them cheated on me, some just left me without any explanation. This made me develop a fear of entering another relationship, I always think that at the end they will also leave me broken and alone. This all changed when I met this guy, he is different from my other exes. He was so nice, always treated me like his princess. He never does anything that he knows will upset me. This made me appreciate him more and I think that I'm falling for him. What should I do, should I give love another chance? I am so tired of being hurt and I am afraid that someday he will leave me also.

  • #2
    In a relationship, there are many risks that you have to take. Do not let your past control you, give him a chance to love you because who knows, maybe he is the person that was destined for you.

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    • inertia
      inertia commented
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      And what do you want her to do if things ended up just like her previous relationships?

    • hardandrough
      hardandrough commented
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      You've got a point there. I hope sooner I would go over all my fears.

  • #3
    The only way for you to find out is to try and unleash your fears.

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    • hardandrough
      hardandrough commented
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      I hope that can easily be done.

  • #4
    Don't lose hope when it comes to love. I would suggest that you just be extra cautious with the guy who's clearly courting you

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    • BeautifulCupful
      BeautifulCupful commented
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      Based on what happened to her, it seems that she's about to give up already and sounds like she's being cautious already

    • imhornyimhorny
      imhornyimhorny commented
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      That's still up to her if she wanted her past to consume her future. We are already out of that.

    • hardandrough
      hardandrough commented
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      Yeah, I'm taking it one step at a time.

  • #5
    We all get tired at some point especially when we've been through a lot. Just think about it this way those failed relationships you had before is leading you into the right one.

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    • HoneySpyder
      HoneySpyder commented
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      Are you thinking that the guy right now is the one who's meant for her?

    • hardandrough
      hardandrough commented
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      I'm hoping that this would be the right one.

  • #6
    If you tend to fall for a particular type of guy, I would suggest to go for someone who's a complete opposite of it. For example, you're into men who are the bad boy type, then you would be really cheated on by those guys

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    • Janbaby
      Janbaby commented
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      So you're saying that it is slightly her fault that's why she ends up getting hurt in all her past relationships?

  • #7
    I think that you have to overcome your fears, take risks this time, who knows maybe he is your Mr. Right that you have been waiting for.

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    • hardandrough
      hardandrough commented
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      I'm trying to do so, I think I need more to think about this.

  • #8
    Give him a chance to prove himself that he is different from your other exes.

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    • 1xz9
      1xz9 commented
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      Maybe some of her exes were like him during the beginning of the relationship that's why she's having 2nd thoughts about it

    • XperiencedVirgin
      XperiencedVirgin commented
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      Hmm... hope that's not the case.

  • #9
    Love is a gamble and you should never be afraid of being hurt when loving someone 'cause it's all part of love.

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    • TroveLove
      TroveLove commented
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      Even if you ended up getting hurt in the end of all of your past relationships?

    • Amazeac
      Amazeac commented
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      Correct, we can never be sure in a person.

  • #10
    When you are choosing a partner, you should not only think about love, you should also think about how he can help you grow as a person.

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    • halfSlut23
      halfSlut23 commented
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      Yes, that's what I'm talking about.

    • Cupcakesi
      Cupcakesi commented
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      Clearly she's grown into a person who's weary or jaded of being in relationships

  • #11
    The chances is 50-50, he may end up like your other exes but there is also a chance that he is the person that you've been longing for in your life.

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    • CupcakeComments
      CupcakeComments commented
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      Maybe you should have tried and increased the chances that the guy was a good one rather than made it 50-50

    • Kinkytime
      Kinkytime commented
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      50-50 is the safest way. Lol

  • #12
    Give the benefit of the doubt, he deserves time to prove himself to you that he's different.

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    • merrygoround
      merrygoround commented
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      Give him a chance but not too much.

    • Lookingforlovin
      Lookingforlovin commented
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      Yeah just the right amount of chance, if there's such thing as that.

    • hardandrough
      hardandrough commented
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      Yeah fair enough, I guess at the moment I just need to enjoy his company.

  • #13
    That's what we always do. At first, we will show you ladies that we are the man and will do anything just to impress you.

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    • PussySlay
      PussySlay commented
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      I'm guessing that it goes downhill once the two of you become a couple already or you still do the same thing for her?

  • #14
    That's not your problem. If he really likes you, he will tell you.

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    • #15
      When you love, fear is always there so being brave is the solution.

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