States Of Love And Trust

[CupcakeTasty]

When you're in a relationship, are you the type who checks your partners phone or social media accounts? Or you've been with someone who's the one who checks your accounts?

[AirFeline]

Not really the type who does that to my partner. If you trust him or her enough, you don't need to do such a thing

[Janbaby]

Indeed, people nowadays think that it's okay to check their partner's phone and social accounts even without permission which I find very disrespectful.

[HoneySpyder]

The only time I'm willing to do such a thing, is when he is the one who tells me that I can check them

[KellyEM]

Yes, or he gives you permission to check out his phone.

[TastyLove]

My ex was like that because we are an LDR so he always checks my social media. He also asks my social media accounts.

[hitthesack]

Do you the same thing to his accounts or not?

[TastyLove]

hitthesack Nope, but he is willing to give his account to me but I refuse to check it.

[CupcakeComments]

I always like to check his social media especially his facebook because some girls are trying to flirt with him.

[honesty101]

Is he fine with it or not? Because you're stepping out of line already if you do it behind his back

[CupcakeComments]

I always ask permission though. but sometimes it was the start of a fight.

[BuiltToLast]

If I have a girl that acts like that I instantly dump her.

[AudreyA]

Not sure if you can easily find a guy if you dump them that fast

[inertia]

I give importance to privacy so doing that is against my principles.

[newromance]

Yeah, and it's not all about principles only, it's all about respect also.

[imhornyimhorny]

This is something I will never do, those who do this lack trust to their partners not to say that they are violating there partner's right to privacy.

[Mor2thisIknoe]

Even if your partner has a history when it comes to cheating?

[Carlosa34]

Mor2thisIknoe I think that's a totally different conversation already if the guy is a known cheater

[Kinkytime]

Yes, I admit that I do that sometimes it's not because I do not have trust in him, it's because I do not have trust to the people around him.

[smoker]

Why don't you trust any of his friends?

[jerda201]

Never been with who's like that. Also I sometimes let her be the one to look at my notifications if I'm doing something

[MasQue]

And do you think that she's secretly checking other things the same time that she's looking or reading the notifications on your phone?

[rockmybedpls]

I never did this because I know how annoying it is when someone is going through your accounts without your permission.

[fistingfatties]

Agree, doing something like this only means lack of trust.

[badbadboys]

I did this to my ex-girlfriend, I had a suspicion that she was cheating on me so I checked her Facebook account and it turns out that my suspicion was true.

[ManlyBeardMan]

So I guess that's why she was now your ex because of your smart move. lol

[MoiraMcTagarrt]

Trust to your partner is very important so doing like this might destroy the relationship.

[Live2Hunt]

I agree with you. You are just invading his privacy.

[smartass]

I'm not the type who would do such a thing since I don't want my guy to look at mine as well

[SmileDemiSmile]

Good to know that your trust on your partner is that strong. It's hard to find someone like you these days

[LoveShove]

I don't like to be monitored and I try not to do it to him too.

[AnneCubix]

Does it mean that if he's going to check your accounts, you would automatically do the same to him?

[sexyme1]

I think it is fair to check on someone's phone if provoked. lol