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    To be left hanging without any idea why someone have to leave is really heartbreaking. My fiance, or maybe ex-fiance, left me without knowing what his reason is. I met him in the capital while I was doing an international dating blog. We were alright, even being sweet to me the last time we met. I tried to talk to him, asking for reasons, but I received no answer. I tried to contact him with any means possible but still, I received zero response. They said things are better left unsaid. But I deserve an explanation! Please help me! How do I see him?

  • #2
    aww man I'm sorry you got ghosted. have you tried talking to his friends? family? how bout his workplace?


    • BeautifulCupful
      BeautifulCupful commented
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      I think that it is just a waste of time if she tried talking to those people about him

    • J3nnyTalia
      J3nnyTalia commented
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      that's up to her.

  • #3
    I think this is a blessing in disguise, this guy is such a scum that he left without explanation or any parting words. You're better off without him and you deserve better


    • Informerem
      Informerem commented
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      Not sure that she would look at it that way. I feel that she's really into him

    • XperiencedVirgin
      XperiencedVirgin commented
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      Yes, I know that she's really into him, but she has to accept the fact that it is over between the two of them

  • #4
    Sometimes it is much better if you don't know the reason behind their decision since it would make you feel more hurt once you find out


    • bubblebutt6969
      bubblebutt6969 commented
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      So you're saying that he saved her from a much bigger hurt?

    • uninvoked
      uninvoked commented
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      Might be. If you want to be optimistic then yeah. But I also thought that she also deserves to know why to make it easier for her to move on.

  • #5
    Just accept the fact that sometimes there are things that are much better left unsaid


    • Janbaby
      Janbaby commented
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      Have you been in the same situation before?

  • #6
    I think it's for the best. good to know you found out what he was like before you guys got married


    • #7
      Maybe the reason why the other person does that is because you would get hurt more if you they tell you the real reason behind it


      • #8
        You don't need to be with someone who ghosts a person. It is time for you to move on already and find a guy who's more deserving than him


        • #9
          I exactly know what you feel. When I experienced this, I also tried to ignore the guy and let it go. I find it so exhausting to look for answers and get the wrong response.


          • #10
            Maybe he knew you would get hurt letting you know the reason behind this. I know he is reading your messages he just chooses to ignore it, let him be. You don't deserve this.


            • #11
              This is really heart breaking girl, be strong I know you'll get through to this.